Searching for a reason

At some point in life, a point comes when there is sudden outburst of human being. In my case, it happens with loud cries. I do not cry very easily but at some point, even I feel it’s more than enough and I am not able to ignore crying. Just like all those days when I cried aloud, today is also one day when I am feeling like crying. There are so many reason that I am not able to count. My heart and head is feeling so burdened that I can’t express it in words. I just wanna say, “I WANT TO CRY”. I was avoiding giving it a consideration and trying to keep myself busy with other things. Even after putting my best efforts, I am unable to control this emotional outburst. I am feeling very helpless and weak at this point of time. They say if you can control yourself, you can rule the world. But I am unable to control my tears. Tell me what should I do now? I think my yesterday is ruling my today. But I can assure one thing. I will not let it affect my tomorrow. I have always put my best in life. I had tried to take all people I know with me. But I think this time I have failed in making my bonding with my sister perfect. She is happier moving out and roaming with other people than me. On the other hand, my world revolves around her only. I have made a stronger bonding with her from last three years since we shifted in our home here. She is my parents, buddy and of course my guide. I do not whether I am a fool or she is cleverer than me that she is able to enjoy everything without me and I keep on waiting for the time she will get free and accompany me. Now I am confused whether I need to learn how to live alone or I need to ask her to spare some time for me. I am looking in to find out the reason for which this is happening with me. I hope I will certainly find it soon.

A true fact about teacher-taught relationship in present scenario

Man is that species of the earth that cannot survive alone. It may be due to the innate nature of human beings or his socializing attitude that we cannot see any man in total solitude. Although in early times there were numerous saints who used to practice total separateness from materialistic world and went on the way of spirituality. But if we analyse even there also, these saints were in the company of their spirituality or what we can call their respective Gods whom they prayed. I never thought of about the importance of relationships in life. The word relationship does not refer to only our personal or immediate relations that we get naturally by birth but has a wide scope to cover. There are certain short timed relationships that we are unable to forget for whole of our life. One such relation is the one that we make with our teachers.

Have you ever made a little effort to analyse this relationship? The reply will obviously be more of a “No”. Most of us are busy in strengthening other relationships when we merely remember the teacher who taught us how to spell out and pronounce the word ‘relationship’. In this article I want to focus on the importance of bonding between a teacher and her students. A teacher is next to motherly figure during initial days of our schooling. She is the one who helps us in getting accommodated in the strangest environment of school as it is the first formal setting of our life. She lays the foundation stone of our personality. I still remember my Kinder Garden teacher who was so patient in her behaviour that she used to remain quiet and calm even when we shouted and cried like demons.

Her affection is the same for all students. She is not merely concerned with providing bookish knowledge to us rather we get all other types of knowledge like moral, ethical, social, etc. from her only. I must say that the relation of a teacher and student comes just after parents in the list of importance and affection. But in modern times, where we are forgetting about the importance of relationship of parents and children, how can we expect someone to value the teacher student relationships? These days, both the extremes are available with us. There are students who value and remember their educationists for whole life and those for whom teachers are merely machineries who provide lectures to them. A teacher lives whole of her life through the eyes of students. So, we must learn to value our teachers because simply saying a “Thanks” from core of heart can payback the debt of what teachers do for us. Do value them; they are the stepping stones of your success.

Have guts to accept your mistakes

It often happens in case of a child that he wants to hide his mistake or so to say he is afraid of the consequences. This can be accepted if a child does so. But if we youngsters start behaving in such a manner, what would it be called? It is undoubtedly, heights of irresponsibility. All of us are fond of driving our vehicles on high speed. Have you ever wondered what if your car just loses control due to high speed or if it bangs into some other vehicle? Certainly we do not have that much spare time to give it a thought. But when it is a lovely Sunday afternoon and you are standing in your balcony taking a look on the activities happening around through the window, and suddenly two cars clash with each other, the one that is one the wrong side hits the car coming from other side very badly that it bashes into the garden of a house nearby, you cannot stop your mind muscles recollect the view of the scene time and again. All this happened before my eyes last weekend. Although everybody came out no sooner after the happening of this unfortunate incident, but the person at fault made it to run away from the spot without bothering about the people whom he hit for even a second. We all helped the people in the car to come out and found that all the three inside were bleeding badly. And, there was a baby also. How cruel he could have been.

Are we so cowardly that we can’t even accept our mistake?